ever been in love??...

Here i am.... anant maini...i never thought i'd have the patience to blog, ever in my life.. anant means infinite, that which never stops... suits me, i go too deep into things i like.. nothing great about me, normal going guy... 

i have my own theory about love which i'd like every1 to know...

i asked myself why does love happen only to teenagers?..why do people go so crazy about meeting each other n spend loooooong hours on call??..

i donno how i came up with this story o theory o logic wotever u may call..

Love is a mere attraction,ego-issue once u dont know what is it...i can guess 95% of first-love stories never go till the end.. but y???....

becoz love in reality is of three types..

1)RICH class LOVE stories  : ek ladka tha ik ladki thi

The guy has alot of money to afford a girlfriend, such people have a antenna over their head which alwayz hovers around to search a girl(naku oka girlfreind kavali ra)... as in most rich cases the gal n guy meet through a common friend..they start talking, the guy mustve gone on many dates before this girl, n the girl is no less(posh hai bai, marziii)... rich love stories are fast paced, both start knowing each other...they go on dates n in some time they get close to each other n the guy proposes with the usual cake n flowers in some beautiful location....picture perfect na.. hindi movies

wot happens next?? == they introduce each other to their friends, guys wanna show how hot his girlfriend is n the girl is no less..the guy spends lavishly on calls for a few months..  they know each other n then they start getting bored(the real twist of life n love).. both of them start flirting with others thinking thode se kya hoga??..over sometime both dont feel the zeal, the charm..

Break up symptoms :   symptoms start slowly.. on a date the guy talks more about other gals,he notices other gals more, the gal now feels things which she felt cute getting disgusting,gals starts getting irritated over stuff, small taunts start flowing...

Result : Typical dialog comes "u not the same person u were, u've changed"... n after 6 months they break up thinking the other wasnt pure heart coz he/she flirts with others..

Postmortem : The guy moves on, u can see such people telling around "dude i dumped her"... he he

2) Poor love stories : this happens to people who dont have money to spend..

the guy stares at the girl everyday... the girl knows hez watching him but acts as if she knows nothing(even if she doesnt have feelings, gals still sees to it that she gets attention from the guy)... poor guy doesnt know how to approach gals.. so everyday he starts following the gal with his friends..  

                                          --- time passes by--

        atlast he gets the guts to talk to the girl and after sometime proposes the gal in a not so charming way... the gal accepts

wot happens next??== they meet in cheap places, behind trees in parks,behind rocks in villages.. thats a date of them(lovez not the same for evry1, rite?).. they have roadside sodas, cheap snacks on a date... he he..they fear things..

Breakup symptoms : the gal stops talking to the guy...the guy doesnt know why.. he follows her n if he gets a chance to talk, she tells him that she will be engaged to her bava in a year.....boooooooooooom...

postmortem: either the guy commits suicide o thinks how dare she dumps me n throws acid on the girl...next day such a story comes in the local newspaper...he he

3)Middle class love story : Most common ones in the society..

the guy just wants to know wots love after watching bollywood/tollywood movies...he finds a gal, through a friend gets her contact number(such people think once they get a phone number the gal is just mins away)...

they start by forwards, which turn to gudmornings in a few days and after a few days chatting starts on a daily basis.. the most unique aspect of this love story is before a guy proposes he wants to know how gud are his chances so while chatting he asks her "i wouldnt propose u, but if ever i propose u wot will u say?".. girls never loose such a chance, even if shez commited she wouldnt tell a straight "No"...

The guy falls in the trap, if succesfull he gets the gal... such people go on a date in groups(log kya kahenge?), 4 guys n four gals.....they start meeting often among the 4 guys n gals, u'l find couples brewing between them..

wot happens next?== such people live in their own small world chatting all day, they share every small thing they can..n telecom operators make merry..

Break up symptoms : "u dint tell me u did this?", "u with a guy,whoz he?","y cant we meet?", "go n give them more importance, wot am i tyu" are some of the symptoms...

Result : relation becomes like a chewing gum, no taste, it just stretches ttill it can...

postmortem : the guy sobs for the gal.. starting boozing n smoking if he never did n if he was a brilliant student, he becomes a frrreaaak...

Love is not about achieving the person, its about living each day,each minute, each second...there are bad n gud days in life..gota hold the connection..